Tuesday, September 15, 2009
To Doug
There is another big Thank You due, and that is to my husband, Doug. He has been amazing, absolutely amazing. This has definitely been the most difficult time in our 26 year marriage, but I saw the very best in him THIS year. He's taken care of me, pampered me, scolded me when I tried to do too much, he's seen me at my very worst and saw me back to good days over and over again. He's been with me at every single doctor appointment, treatment and follow-up visit, and there were a lot. He's watched as I lost my hair, my weight, and my control; as I took lotions, potions, powders and pills; as I lay in bed not barely able to turn over. He's encouraged me to sleep and to get up and take a walk, holding my arm the whole way. He's brought me water, medications, crackers and meals. He's been the communicator to all of you, answering calls, emails and the door. He's taken the kids to appointments, school, events, and their plays, helped with homework, computer problems and everyday issues. Did the laundry, the dishes and the vacuuming. He's made me feel nothing less than beautiful, even through all that he's seen, had to do, and witnessed. Now I can see why some marriages don't survive cancer, but ours did and has become stronger. Thank you for getting me through this with patience, understanding and unconditional love. I love you.
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from your sister julie
through the tears, i am trying to agree with your tribute to your wonderful husband, who i know has loved you from the beginning, i could tell!
He has been a complete savior to us, also. Knowing you were with him, Debbie, we could focus on prayers and not on who would or could be there to help you. Doug has taken care of all of us, too, by elequently infoming us of your very long and tough journey together, never once complaining.
I always knew he was perfect for you, and you for him. And, I've always been amazed at how MANY things he was good at, now we can add this to the list. I hope he is doing well, and getting his rest too. He deserves a HIP HIP HOORAY, AND HATS OFF, AND HERE'S TO YOU...!
I LOVE YOU, TOO, DOUG!
julie
Dear Doug,
How can I possibly improve on the praise both Debbie and Julie have heaped upon you? I will just say what is in my heart.
Remember when I said Debbie could absolutely not go on a first date with you? She outsmarted me by bringing you in for an introduction. Surprise--it was love at first sight from ME to you. You were perfect for Debbie.
I long ago entrusted my youngest daughter into your care. When she moved to Colorado to go to the Institute of Art, having you with her assured me of her safety and that Colorado life would be a fun experience.
It did seem to be fun until this past year, but even then you made it tolerable. You have never disappointed me. You have more than lived up to my expectations--and they were high!
After all these years, I just love you more.
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